Dating rules hard to get
Just don't touch or share sexual innuendoes with other dudes.
The idea is to pique his jealousy, not piss him off.
How everybody wins: Maintaining your own life acts like claustrophobia kryptonite.
"When you show that you like him but your world doesn't revolve around him, it says you're confident and self-reliant — two very sexy traits to a guy," says Argov.
"We started talking, and within minutes, Ken came over..didn't leave my side all night." Make him feel like he has to fight for your attention.
Casually talk to cute men in his presence, mention male friends in your conversations ("Javier said the funniest thing the other day..."), and let him witness other guys checking you out.
"Initially, I was digging him, but he would spend more time people watching than he would focusing on me.
So the next weekend, I told him I couldn't make it." Dom's reaction?
"Show him that he won't dictate the terms of your relationship and that your life is not on hold for him," says Argov."Over dinner, Andy asked me if I was seeing other people.I just said teasingly, 'Well, I certainly don't stay home alone.' I could see the intrigue was killing him." How everybody wins: Where there's secrecy, there's interest.A guy who's guaranteed to focus on hearing you out.The game plan: Don't let him feel like he has a guaranteed spot on your social calendar.